Being a nice person gets you nowhere. Does it lead to uselessness?

  • Haven’t you not been rewarded by being nice to you or to someone? First and foremost you help yourself by being nice to you and those around you. Many people behave badly and taught you to behave like them. Poison you and in return thought you to become rude and unkind. You can get very few people who are nice and kind to anybody even though people’s response were bad and discouraging. You feel bad and irritated if some people respond badly even though you are good and nice to them. You can attract positive things if you are positive, and attract negative things if you are negative. You know the law of gravity and karma. So you do not be influenced and molded by someone’s bad behaviors and affect you to be like them. Only choose the best deeds and acts and dispose the poisoned ones. Unfortunately we are exposed to environment where people are favoured when they behave badly and unruly and they become successful. You know why, the environment we live in now are polluted by corruption, unfair justice and transgressions and immorality. If you are nice, many people regard you as fool and conservative. This thinking makes me bad and frustrated me. But I choose good things over bad ones. Be nice to everything.
  • Being a nice person gets you nowhere. How did you come by that assumption? If you believe that, you are not a nice person because you can’t, seemingly, be a nice person even to yourself. Being a nice person isn’t something you do for others; it is something you do for yourself that rubs off on everyone in your circle of influence. It will lead you to uselessness only if you allow it. Remember, no one can harm you without your permission, and the more helpful you are to yourself and the rest of the world, the more people will be willing to help you. If you truly believe what you said above, you surely need to take a very long, hard look at yourself in a mirror, then give yourself a sharp kick in the backside….
  • Being a nice person will not only get you nowhere but people will have no respect for you. As for uselessness, as long as you are useful people will continue to take advantage of the nice guy, so you wont become useless but you will probably feel it.
  • NO WAY!!! May look like it, but you can look in a mirror with a clear conscience. And, IMHO, karma will come… being nice will NEVER be the same as being useless – NEVER! Keep on keeping on. Your day will come…
  • A false premise. If that nasty jerk asks you to help him move over the weekend, you would come up with any kind of excuse. If that super nice person who has done you many favors asks to help him move and he’s buying lunch and beers (because he is so nice) you most likely say yes.
  • Honestly I am a nice person, but yeah it kinda is useless cause you can’t really go no where with just being nice…

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